On training a sissy...

...to be comfortable with themselves:

As a girl

As a naughty girl

As a misbehaving girl

To set things straight, right from the start:

MissBehaviour does not do feminisation.

She doesn't insist on sissy maid's dresses, fluffy fripperies and little-girl outfits. She doesn't insist on always being madeup fully for Mistress, or always fully femme. And she positively detests having to make every dressing decision for a dim 'wannabe girl'.  Other Mistresses may do that, and sissies who want such order, clear and continual direction and certainty can find such help elsewhere.

What she does do is help those who are already on the 'femme' path enjoy themselves more. This can take many different forms: mental play, dress-up, developing relationship as a girl, intercourse (cyber-social mostly but not always) are some examples. But part of this help could be classified as specific training - measures chosen deliberately to push them that little bit further forward, give them experience, make them comfortable, pique their interest and so forth. And as I've mentioned many times, I expect very imaginative response in return - my harem has such a quality.

Other Dom(mes) will of course have different views on how sissies should be developed, and some may be in strong disagreement with my (soft) approach. But my harem seems rather happy with the results.

There is rather more carrot than stick in such training - MissBehaviour is actually a softie at heart^[1]. There are two broad classes of such training I employ: dares & challenges and 'member-conditioning'.

Setting imaginative challenges for members of my harem is hard mental work! But often worth it - the risk, thrill and that 'extra push' can frequently help to move to the next stage. However I need to gather my thoughts together and build a post that discusses the sorts of challenge and dare in a 'rational' manner, with lots of examples. When that appears it will be linked from here. In the rest of this post I'll discuss 'member-conditioning', as my readership deserves something naughty.

Member-conditioning

Some of my harem have, within their own context, come to terms with the bisexuality required or buried within them: to acknowledge it, accept it, embrace it and enjoy it by being girls. And MB has I hope played a useful role in that process, through listening, chatting, encouraging and providing exercises and training.

s2, s6 and s7 are very good examples. Each has grown from a (near-) cuckold position to a point where they love to be girls for a (dominant) male. Whilst each situation is different (and I'll let them clarify/correct via comment), all three had some common 'training' from MissBehaviour, with the full knowledge of the appropriate partner.

All three had clearly been labelled 'inadequate' by the partner and already well down the femme road. What they were beginning to face were situations where their sexuality couldn't be directed towards the female, but would have to find other channels. Channels that would probably involve a male somewhere along the line.

So the requirement was to get them comfortable with, and preferably strongly attracted to the male in a sexual sense. And to do this in a slow gentle way that doesn't scare, but does progress forward. MB's technique is slow exposure to lots of suitable imagery, and occasionally video material, while sometimes chatting or sometimes for solo study.

ImageFap is an excellent source of all sorts of suitable collections. We might start with some of couples together where she's told to focus on the male member in the picture, but the context still has familiarity. Later we'll move onto collections of anonymous manhoods, in different states of arousal. This collection is one that was used with some of my subs. They are of course encouraged to arouse themselves in this process and tell me what they feel. Mild teasing helps and the focus is aimed strongly at the manhood not the man. Orgasm is certainly encouraged as reward for success - Pavlov might have been shocked.  'Homework' assignments might be close study of a collection for an hour or two, with self-arousal demanded.

Later on (and the process will take weeks if not months) we'll move onto larger examples, again getting them to focus just on the male member, and with some constant quizzing on their feelings^[2]. At this stage 'cuckold comparison' can be another useful technique helping them to come to terms with their situation and make a positive from their growing interest in another's more-than-adequate manhood.

A naughty exercise at this point is to get them to watch out for well-endowed 'lunchpacks' when they are out shopping (preferably for very girlie underwear of course) and fantasise about what they might contain. Reports are expected and naturally they will be fully femmed underneath during such exercises, if not totally en femme.

By now they will be very comfortable and strongly interested in large endowments, and typically I'll then start to get them focussing on 'male product' as a desired outcome. Sucking exercises on anatomical dildos are perfect at this point, though often that has happened previously. And naturally their own juices can be used as part of this training.

Now they are getting very comfortable with the idea at least of performing oral sex. When and if they do this for real is of course highly dependent upon the situation, but the partner is often involved in engineering a suitable and humiliating opportunity. When that stage becomes apparent I love to get them fantasising about kneeling to perform for their first time... talking them slowly through the idea of unzipping the lucky man and that first touch leading to wicked delights. And afterwards of course they love to report details to MissBehaviour.

I'm sure some 'graduates' of this programme will like to add their own comments.

[1] For some, carrots would be more probably used for nefarious purposes rather than being eaten, though those individuals probably count the illicit use as reward enough.
[2] Yes - I know you're wondering: does MissBehaviour have similar 'interest' in the member. Yes, but only when both parties, including her, are elegantly dressed TVs!