Gossip from the Harem

Of course not everything that goes on in MissBehaviour's Harem is 'big enough' to report as a major posting. There is a constant undercurrent of tidbits, small events and gossip amongst the girls, perhaps even the occasional catty remark. Appreciating this and eavesdropping a little on such social intercourse is both pleasurable and helpful in understanding the girls as a society.

Here are a few little snippets from recent times. No doubt some of my houris may add some more 'heard it from one of the other girls, but you mustn't tell anyone else' nuggets - the best sort of currency for girls.

Pansy Labels are in

The sweet labels and pink ribbons that s6 wore with pleasure have been a source of a little jealousy amongst the houris - several of the girls have tried similar decoration themselves. One even planned to wear her pink pansy identification surreptitiously when serving her Mistress and Master last weekend. She wanted to show how proud she was to be in the Harem. We'd love to know whether she was 'found out', wouldn't we girls?

Who's a little girl then?

One of the girls is trying to see how small she can get, wanting to be as far from a 'big boy' as she can. She's asked MissBehaviour for some assistance in exercises that might help, shall we say, reduce her manhood. (Big enough to play with, too small to **** - isn't that a goal for several of the cuckolds too?)

Do you want sex with Mistress?

One of the girls was given an opportunity recently to make love to her Mistress - the proviso being that she must get an erection, without feminine assistance. Naturally she failed this test completely and utterly, despite the prospect and presence of her Mistress's most intimate parts.
But when she was allowed to put on her pink girlie panties, lo and behold - arousal and stiffness! But it was too late - Mistress had proved beyond doubt that sissy was no longer remotely a normal man and could kiss goodbye to conventional intercourse with her wife. (For a really sweet last ever fuck, see hubwife's gift in Bi and Large...)

Catfight in the Harem?

We think there is a little spat between two of the girls about who gives best worship to WQueen Caroline. Give them room girls!

Memories of Ownership

We understand one of the Harem will shortly publish her account of joining those fortunate enough to be glanced at by MissBehaviour - a piece that is soft, sensuous and sexual. A tale that gives insight into what the houris desire and dream of, what MissBehaviour expects of her girls, how the status of the girls change. How Mistress asserts her complete ownership.

I'm sure we all look forward to it.

Humiliated in front of her slut-wife and work colleagues

Someone has been exposed by her Master as a sissy in front of colleagues from work. After a normal dinner made to go upstairs and change to her girlie self and then reappear, where her slut-like behaviour was demonstrated to general astonishment. On a subsequent evening her wife (who'd also become sub to Master and Mistress) was there too and general humilating confessions and acts on both parts took place. I'm sure the girl involved will want to tell us more, as of course humiliation is also part of the turnon. (She said she was planning to.) Apparently Master enjoyed reading out one of her comments on the blog, slowly and repeatedly.

Professional humiliation

Sometimes you have needs that only a professional can really satisfy. A specific scenario that might for example involve self-abuse in front of a business-woman, who is heaping verbal scorn on you, whilst teasing you just the way you want. Teasing you slowly, revealing very little, while reinforcing your sissy, non-manly, nature.

I wonder who is planning (with some encouragement) to do just that? Let's hope she'll tell us what transpired girls.

From Further Afield

Some of the blogs I follow have fascinating recent developments:

• Suzanne and tammy in All Mine, have had some interesting fun recently. Some of my cuckolded houris might care to point their Mistress to 'airport pickup services' where the cuck has provided intimate chauffeuse arrangements. Mistress can then be completely flagrant in indulging her sexual needs as soon as possible when her lover returns from a long business trip. An earlier airport pickup is also worth reading.
  (tammy is also often 'babysat' by Suzanne's sister and is even allowed her own blog at times. My Harem should take note - they are perfectly at liberty to blog themselves.)
• Molly and Mick in Under Contract to My Wife have begun to embrace the capitalist ideal even more strongly (well - they are American to start with, so what do you expect?), by 'incorporating' and organising themselves and their fellow correspondents into a proper management team, complete with HR department. Monthly staff meetings however can have some unusual diversionary tactics employed when trying to push through unpopular measures.
  Such organisational acumen, and diligence in pretty-nearly daily updating, even when travelling, has brought rewards. The 'toy' company edenfantasys.com is offering the possibility of product placement on their blog or prehaps more accurately sponsorship in kind, in return for published roadtests by Molly (mostly!) or Mick.
• Mistress Sandra is now a contributor to Bi and Large - Cuckolding with a Twist. I wonder whether we'll see more of the feelings and thoughts of the 'top bitch' in that fascinating threesome. Diane has been promoted at work and consequently very busy. She's hoping soon to make up for 'lost time' in her submission to Sandra and developing the role of the bottom-sub molly.

Pansy Power proves persuasive

s6 is enjoying her 'wife' relationship with her Master. But recently Master has become enamoured of the idea of s6 being treated much of the time as a pansy. In part this was triggered by looking at some of the posts about s7 which introduced the term to them. (I suspect that 'pansy' isn't a normal US term, at least in the non-floral sense - a colonial cousin may care to confirm or enlighten.)

A first step seems to have been Master tying a sweet little pink ribbon around s6's sweetness (what s7 would call her princess) for one of their lovemaking sessions. ("A real man would never have a pink ribbon there, but a pansy would"). But it was clear that much much more was over the horizon.

MissBehaviour is always eager to build on events like that. She made a suggestion, which grew into a small plot hatched between her and s6. The ribbon had more uses than just decoration - uses that were very pansy! And we were starting with one of the more obvious ones, though hopefully still a pleasant surprise for her Master.

s6 was asked to find some long lengths of pink ribbon (several feet) and some sweet pink labels. This she did during some subsequent shopping, finding nice long pink lace ribbon.

The labels were to be decorated suitably. We discussed this and came up with three ideas: Master's pansy, his 'pet' name for her (which is not public) and something recognising MissBehaviour. And as you can see they all look so sweet. (I know pansy and sissy shouldn't be capitalised, but the font I used, Fiolex Girls, had such sweet hearts in Upper Case that I just had to show you!)

Now of course the labels would be attached to lengths of that sweet ribbon. s6 would have the labels tucked into her skirt waistband when she was performing domestic duties before Master came home. Then, when her man arrived, she would hand them to him, for his amusement and instrument of control. The ribbons snaked from the waistband, down to the skirt hem and then back up underneath to a convenient 'anchor point', that was buried beneath some sweet pink girlie panties.

She suggested using two lengths of ribbon, one from the front, and another down the back - an idea I accepted gratefully. (I very much approve of my houris being imaginative.) So that is what she did.

The perfect opportunity was St Valentine's Day. She dolled up in her best girlie outfit: pink 4" heels, white stockings, pink garter belt with white lace, pink full-cut panties trimmed with white lace and a large bow/ribbon in the back, pink bra with pink ribbons, pink choker, short petticoat and long sleeved pink satin dress with hem to just below stocking tops, white lace at wrist and collar. Then of course the sweet ribbons - one down the front of the skirt, the other falling across her derrière.

Master arrived home. Limp-wristed and mincing, she handed over one of her pink pansy reins....

We can imagine what then transpired....

A perfect pansy performance

Dares, Challenges and A Competition

previously on MissBehaviour...
Training of my sissies involves various usually thoughtful, but sometimes spontaneous, actions. I've described 'member-conditioning' for those of a distinctly bisexual persuasion and context, but left hints about dares and challenges. These teases need some degree of resolution to assuage the thirsts for 'kink' that my readership and my Harem seem to develop. And to encourage everyone to read on, digest, think and smile, there will be a competition.

Now keep calm....
it's just one of MissBehaviour's dares

A cursory glance at the postings in this blog will reveal that many of the sissies/subs in my harem have been privileged to receive dares and challenges from MissBehaviour. These can range from something really quite 'risky' in public to a loving suggestion for a private occasion between Master and 'wife'. Some houris^[1] actually want dares almost constantly - s4 is so sweet about this that I often have a little trouble thinking of something suitable.

Challenges are fun - both for Mistress and for the houri. They both develop and excite at the same time. The difficult part is to design just enough to ensure anticipation is mostly positive, risk and thrill is acceptable and ultimate reward satisfactory. Some factors to consider are:

• What is reasonably possible?
• Have they done something else that can be built upon?
• How much risk should we add?
• Is an element of humiliation required?

Most of my harem are deeply enamoured of ladies' underwear, so that pretty much always features in any dare in some form or other. Climax is often built in as a reward or a central part of the challenge, but need not always be so.

Some dares can be private and have their own fun. s2 and s6 have been given little 'suggestions' about actions to perform that, whilst with a little risk of humiliation in front of the partner, add a frisson of spice to the (usually sexual) entertainment. A good example is described in Follow the Lingerie Road..... where s6 was dared to make herself extra-specially inviting for her Master.

Some challenges thrive on being in semi-public. Very early ones with s7 were very sweet, and with her Mistress's distinct connivance and approval. She was ordered to have one of her Mistress's bras in her panties when at a pub for the evening and 'milk' herself into it.... Several of s1's most memorable dares were in public - buying 'top-shelf' magazines ostentatiously in a newsagent when a number of older teenagers were around^[2] and a series of fruit 'enjoyments' in her parked car are just a few simple examples. Quickies for s4 have sometimes involved going lingerie-clad into her garden to enjoy an 'exposed' masturbation.

'Interesting' underwear
© MissBehaviour 2011

Some of course particularly appreciate a humiliation aspect to their 'enjoyment' - s5 and s9 are the main culprits here. The easiest way to achieve this is to order them to buy some interesting items of ladies' lingerie in circumstances that are guaranteed to heighten their embarrassment. Tasking them to buy something not quite so common, such as a longline bra, which needs searching out specialist foundation-wear stores or at a time and place when there are plenty of other women around can work wonders. (s5 had to buy some lingerie from TopShop on a Saturday afternoon - the place was of course full of teenage girls ;-)

It's rare that a challenge is repeated, though sometimes it might be best to 'do it again' with an additional element generating extra frisson. One of the best examples of this is s4's lovely first steps in bikini sunbathing in a local park. She obviously relished the thrill, so the obvious next step was to push it that extra rather naughty step, by adding an orgasmic requirement. And the little sweetie completed it.

The Competition

Ecstatic at being one of MissBehaviour's houris
Aroused but scared of what challenge she'll face

Well - it's pretty obvious... Suggest a challenge either for one of my Harem specifically, or something rather more general. The simplest way is to add to the comments below. (I might also put in a little poll later.)

The most 'interesting' challenge will be given to one or more of my Harem to complete and report! 

Don't be shy or retiring, or hold back ("they won't do that will they?") - let MissBehaviour be the judge^[3]. Get your thinking caps on!

[1] I've used 'member of my Harem' too much, and sub/sissy is too bimodal. Until I tire of it, houri will be the word I'll use.
[2] s1 is a lady ;-), so this was a dare to get giggles and stares at her buying and perusing some magazines full of very-well-endowed (o  )(  o) girls...
[3] MissBehaviour's decision is final of course and modifications for practicality, privacy or just plain common sense may be necessary.

On training a sissy...

...to be comfortable with themselves:

As a girl

As a naughty girl

As a misbehaving girl

To set things straight, right from the start:

MissBehaviour does not do feminisation.

She doesn't insist on sissy maid's dresses, fluffy fripperies and little-girl outfits. She doesn't insist on always being madeup fully for Mistress, or always fully femme. And she positively detests having to make every dressing decision for a dim 'wannabe girl'.  Other Mistresses may do that, and sissies who want such order, clear and continual direction and certainty can find such help elsewhere.

What she does do is help those who are already on the 'femme' path enjoy themselves more. This can take many different forms: mental play, dress-up, developing relationship as a girl, intercourse (cyber-social mostly but not always) are some examples. But part of this help could be classified as specific training - measures chosen deliberately to push them that little bit further forward, give them experience, make them comfortable, pique their interest and so forth. And as I've mentioned many times, I expect very imaginative response in return - my harem has such a quality.

Other Dom(mes) will of course have different views on how sissies should be developed, and some may be in strong disagreement with my (soft) approach. But my harem seems rather happy with the results.

There is rather more carrot than stick in such training - MissBehaviour is actually a softie at heart^[1]. There are two broad classes of such training I employ: dares & challenges and 'member-conditioning'.

Setting imaginative challenges for members of my harem is hard mental work! But often worth it - the risk, thrill and that 'extra push' can frequently help to move to the next stage. However I need to gather my thoughts together and build a post that discusses the sorts of challenge and dare in a 'rational' manner, with lots of examples. When that appears it will be linked from here. In the rest of this post I'll discuss 'member-conditioning', as my readership deserves something naughty.

Member-conditioning

Some of my harem have, within their own context, come to terms with the bisexuality required or buried within them: to acknowledge it, accept it, embrace it and enjoy it by being girls. And MB has I hope played a useful role in that process, through listening, chatting, encouraging and providing exercises and training.

s2, s6 and s7 are very good examples. Each has grown from a (near-) cuckold position to a point where they love to be girls for a (dominant) male. Whilst each situation is different (and I'll let them clarify/correct via comment), all three had some common 'training' from MissBehaviour, with the full knowledge of the appropriate partner.

All three had clearly been labelled 'inadequate' by the partner and already well down the femme road. What they were beginning to face were situations where their sexuality couldn't be directed towards the female, but would have to find other channels. Channels that would probably involve a male somewhere along the line.

So the requirement was to get them comfortable with, and preferably strongly attracted to the male in a sexual sense. And to do this in a slow gentle way that doesn't scare, but does progress forward. MB's technique is slow exposure to lots of suitable imagery, and occasionally video material, while sometimes chatting or sometimes for solo study.

ImageFap is an excellent source of all sorts of suitable collections. We might start with some of couples together where she's told to focus on the male member in the picture, but the context still has familiarity. Later we'll move onto collections of anonymous manhoods, in different states of arousal. This collection is one that was used with some of my subs. They are of course encouraged to arouse themselves in this process and tell me what they feel. Mild teasing helps and the focus is aimed strongly at the manhood not the man. Orgasm is certainly encouraged as reward for success - Pavlov might have been shocked.  'Homework' assignments might be close study of a collection for an hour or two, with self-arousal demanded.

Later on (and the process will take weeks if not months) we'll move onto larger examples, again getting them to focus just on the male member, and with some constant quizzing on their feelings^[2]. At this stage 'cuckold comparison' can be another useful technique helping them to come to terms with their situation and make a positive from their growing interest in another's more-than-adequate manhood.

A naughty exercise at this point is to get them to watch out for well-endowed 'lunchpacks' when they are out shopping (preferably for very girlie underwear of course) and fantasise about what they might contain. Reports are expected and naturally they will be fully femmed underneath during such exercises, if not totally en femme.

By now they will be very comfortable and strongly interested in large endowments, and typically I'll then start to get them focussing on 'male product' as a desired outcome. Sucking exercises on anatomical dildos are perfect at this point, though often that has happened previously. And naturally their own juices can be used as part of this training.

Now they are getting very comfortable with the idea at least of performing oral sex. When and if they do this for real is of course highly dependent upon the situation, but the partner is often involved in engineering a suitable and humiliating opportunity. When that stage becomes apparent I love to get them fantasising about kneeling to perform for their first time... talking them slowly through the idea of unzipping the lucky man and that first touch leading to wicked delights. And afterwards of course they love to report details to MissBehaviour.

I'm sure some 'graduates' of this programme will like to add their own comments.

[1] For some, carrots would be more probably used for nefarious purposes rather than being eaten, though those individuals probably count the illicit use as reward enough.
[2] Yes - I know you're wondering: does MissBehaviour have similar 'interest' in the member. Yes, but only when both parties, including her, are elegantly dressed TVs!

What is Truth? .... is it Real?

Philosophical Musings Warning

On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog

Who knows? Does it really matter? How many of the tales from my 'stable'^[1] are true? Given the large doses of fantasy obviously not all is fact, but a lot of it clearly is.
Of course we all do envelope ourselves with cloaks of mild anonymity (and layers of cloaks) as a core part of our way of life here, so there is uncertainty and at times, doubt.
As may be apparent MissBehaviour has not (yet) physically met any of these fortunate individuals (two are Stateside so that's unlikely anyway), so evidence is indirect. But I do have good reason to believe most of what they tell me, for the following reasons:

• In some cases I have good photographic evidence to back it up. (No - these are not shareable... they are strictly private between sub and Mistress, though one does involve lipstick kisses of considerable intimacy.) Of course with some there is mild or extreme reluctance to furnish such (you know who you are) and I rarely push things too hard. (Wannabes that roll out the limp excuse 'my camera is broken' have been weeded out long before they get the privilege of even getting on the waiting list for my 'chosen ones'.)
• When you've been chatting to someone for a long time, often with many hundreds of thousands of words exchanged, you really do get a sense of their personality and genuineness. Of course they may be absolutely superb actors (and given my premium on imagination this is of course a risk), but keeping that up consistently over months and months would require almost a split-personality..... oh!
• Why would someone expend over months energy and dedication required to satisfy MissBehaviour's demands for imagination? Sure - she's worth it in the end, but as a 'lark'?
• In a few cases I often chat to their partners and then it's definitely clear I am talking to another person - s2 is a good example, where her partner and I sometimes arrange little surprises for s2. And in a very torrid 5-hour session with s1 and one of her lady friends, involving loads of bananas^[2], her feminised husband was acting as a surrogate for me (she will feature in other posts and will be identified as s1_v). Then most definitely several people are involved.

Does it matter? Well, not really... in the end we get the enjoyment. Those lovely occasions where everyone's switched on and you can bask in the warm glow of an exceptional mind-fuck.

[1] I'm not entirely satisfied with using 'stable' as the collective noun. 'Harem' might be better, but even that lacks something. A prize is offered for the best alternative. My sissies/subs are ordered to put their thinking caps on. 
[2] You will hear about that another time.

Follow the Lingerie Road.....

Much of MissBehaviour's pleasure comes from making naughty but useful suggestions to her 'sissies'. In the case of s6 I've been doing that off-and-on for some time, since I first encountered her when, in the early throes of cuckoldry, she had been 'farmed out' by her wife to another Mistress for feminisation training. Since then s6 has progressed steadily to physical separation from her wife and settling down full-time with a Master, effectively as His wife. Along this path MissBehaviour has, I hope, helped with little suggestions, exercises and other forms of training, some of which will be described at another juncture.

Recently, as s6 has settled down well into 'married life', I've been chatting to her about means to help add a little more 'spice' into the (monogamous) relationship. Now she's generally comfortable with her Master and loves to give him pleasure, helping 'bring out the whore' in her is one of the directions. Luckily she often has a little advance notice of Master returning home so an early 'dare' was to be kneeling in underwear right by the door, and give him an immediate oral treat. This proved satisfactory.

One of the latest in this line of episodes from 'whoredom 101' (as our colonial cousins might phrase it) involved a trail of lingerie. This trail of discarded undergarments^[1] led from the front door right to the bedroom, where the 'whore' was already on the bed, on all-fours, with her well-lubed pretty little bottom on full display for her Master. It apparently had just the right effect, him laughing and then moving swiftly to take advantage of the opportunity.

Even more pleasing was that after Master had fulfilled himself, and whilst still entered within, he let or even enouraged s6 to have her own orgasm^[2]. Mission accomplished!

[1] s6 might care to furnish details of which underwear she chose.
[2] MissBehaviour is a great believer in mutual orgasm... chastity and denial in her opinion should be not frequent, short-term, and used for effect only. 

What is MissBehaviour? Who is She?

One has to be elegant © MissBehaviour 2011

Well... it's one of my TV outlets for a lot of imaginative and sometimes downright sexy fun. As I am an elegant transvestite who can project a very classy domme image at times, and loves to be imaginative, playful and firm but not cruel, then cyber-'toying' with sissies and similar is fun, and is I think, much appreciated by those with whom I indulge. MissBehaviour works at her peak with those who similarly spark in reciprocative imagination, where we both build considerable shared thoughts (many of which can be much more than simply risqué), ideas and straightforward play. Where She does not work is with the 'please feminise me Mistress' brigade. Like many Dommes, the last thing we want to hear is "Anything you wish Mistress" - that is only acceptable with those we are very close to, and even then rarely.

I'll illustrate this by discussing some of my current cyber-stable. To protect the 'innocent' (ha!) they'll have simple identifiers, and many of the details will be elided, altered in specifics or just omitted. However: i) you will get a sense of the fun this all entails and ii) those individuals involved will clearly recognise themselves, and I trust in many cases feel proud that MissBehaviour recognises them.

• s1 is the cream of the crop. A lady who is both Domme and sub, she is very beholden to MissBehaviour, having completed many interesting assignments, and subject to a lot of online domination of various real-time forms. She is highly intelligent, exceptionally and filthily imaginative and a dominant cuckoldress to her feminised husband (s1_v), who is by agreed associativity, also submissive to me. She and I converse a very great deal on much else beside the dominative sexual control.
• s2 is a feminised cuckold who is very happily developing into a #2 woman role in her wife's new and very deep relationship. I discuss, 'train' (such as becoming much much happier with the alpha male in the 'family', and his impressive manhood) and generally encourage her. I also have much pleasure in chatting at length and making very useful suggestions to the cuckolding wife.
• s3 is a husband who very much enjoys the pleasures of masturbation, and is successfully developing mutual abuse  fun with his rather nice wife, who it appears is becoming less shy about her own needs. He likes to enjoy himself in somewhat risky situations, especially some on the phone that can be a bit hair-raising, and of course ladies' underwear figures rather strongly, both to wear and 'enjoy'.
• s4 is a young rather sweet TV who is developing girlie habits and fun originally from indulging opportunities with his aunt's and his mother's wardrobes... She likes 'dares' which she has been executing very well, and is often apologetic if she can't manage something due to real-life circumstances. Her 'life' is just beginning to include others, with a 'Daddy' and 'Aunts' featuring on some rare occasions.
• s5 is a closet single sissy who wants to be shamed and exposed (don't they all ;-)) and like many is in it for the risk thrill. Excessive masturbation is a vital ingredient, as is a 'shrine' at her home. She gets given assignments to shop for ladies underwear in interesting circumstances and revels in the fact that the manageress of one ladies lingerie shop called her 'a pervert'.
• s6 is another cuckold who has developed and now taken up full-time with a Master for whom she is really settling down to be a satisfied wife. I help her with suggestions for 'spicing up' some of their relationship. 
• s7 is a sissy who's been developed slowly by her wife over several years and has just had her first 'male' sexual experience. I've given some interesting semi-public assignments in the past.
• s8 is a precocious little brat, again very very imaginative, who's beginning to explore a new persona and 'world', sometimes with MissBehaviour and s1 directing her simultaneously.